So soul crushing, so unforgiving and real.

I FEEL PHYSICALLY ILL.

15 Temmuz 2011 & Blue valentine, kurgusal olarak kusursuz bir film. Oyunculuklar, denge cok iyi. Ama allah askina, kadinin derdi neydi? Belki de her sey mukemmeldi, hayatinda duzeltebilecegi bisey yoktu.Belki de hala digerine asikti. Belki de kacirdigi firsatlari dusunuyordu. Biraz dusundum de, kadini rahatsiz eden adam ile arasindaki egitim ve hayat bakis acisi farkiydi. Adamin ona yetmedigni dusundu. Bitch.

Will rape your heart. Gosling is becoming one of my favorite actors. Would scare anyone away from marriage and/or raising a child.

The two leads give a natural and realistic performance as a married couple whose marriage is coming undone.My problem with this film is that once I knew how they meet and why they got married and realized how shallow there relationship was from the beginning I stopped caring if they reconciled or not and found the last twenty minutes boring.

Well, I thought this one was gonna suck, showing some goofy, indie-spirited (but still Oscar serious) romance and crappily shoehorn the break-up due to some inane reason. But instead, there are no reasons, the love just fizzles out as most people have experienced. However, the initial romance is genuine but brimming with uncertainly. Romance films benefit most from terrific chemistry between the two leads and this film certainly boasts that.

Williams and especially Gosling are excellent

Although there are some absolutely fantastic scenes, in the end the whole enterprise doesn't hang together all that well. Cianfrance's obviously got an agenda here; had he been more even-handed in his examination of the marriage (a la motherfucking Bergman), it would have been more potent rather than seeming a sideshow from time to time.

Wow, so even a nice guys like Gosling's character can't make it as a family men. Dumb fuckwits like the rest of us are just doomed! Cianfrance's debut is a hoplessness inducing relationship drama. It doesn't always feel real, because even though acting from both leads is great, it doesn't make characters that are easy to indentify with. Blue Valentine is also an indie film, and it puts that as a statement. Goddamn ukulele! Technical credits are very good. This is American indie of the year.

Obviously there was no hope of me actually rating this movie or even watching it outside of the intensely personal context it has for me. I tried though and I've determined that if a bitch is gonna dump me over a movie it's gotta be better than this. What an awful character Michelle Williams plays. Traps a guy into a loveless marriage because she's a cumslut then blames him for ruining it when she is really almost 100% at fault for everything bad that has ever happened to the poor guy. Yuck.

birbirlerine asik olarak evlenmis ciftin gecen zaman icerisinde degisimlerini, bunun evlilik ve asklarina etkilerini vermis. gosling degisen karakteri iyi oynamis. gecmiside es zamanli anlatan kurgusu ilgiyi yuksek tutuyor ama yeni bir bakis acisi getirmiyor.

Loved it. Although I might be a little bias since Williams is from my hometown, and I've always been a big fan of Gosling. This is really a powerful, down to earth, and intimate film. It has almost everything to make a great story; I'm sure I'll definitely be recommending it. Also, Gosling should have gotten a nomination for best actor, and I'm definitely looking forward to what Cianfrance has brewing.

The movie acts as a vehicle for Gosling and Williams to show if they have the ability to act an entire relationship drama centering around them, and they deliver performances so strong, nuanced, and convincing that what could've been a banal drama instead becomes utterly soul-crushing. Great score and editing as well. Score is not a grade.

This sounded great. On paper. Contrasting the best and worst times of the couple and never giving a specific reason for their relationship going off the rails ingeniously illustrates that it's just as possible to fall out of love as in. Unfortunately, neither the courting scenes nor the quarrelling ones are particularly interesting and the film has that damn "look at us, we're quirky and Oscar-worthy" vibe. Overrated.

Sounded like it had the potential to be a film I would love. It did not disappoint. Emotionally engaging and wonderfully pieced together. The transformation of characters past to present is heartbreaking. Credit is due to both Gosling and Williams who are excellent.

We're never quite shown the middle part of the relationship, but that's ok. It's not about tracking the dissolution of a marriage, but rather about showing the ecstasy of falling in love for the first time and the agony of breaking up and realazing that maybe you were never meant for each other. Besides, the fact that they got married primarly because she was knocked up pretty much tells you all you need to know about what must have happened in between and why they ended up like they did.

To my credit, I didn't cry. I did, however, surprise myself by willing him to turn around at the end. God, what heartbreak.

"A postmodern tragedy of two people at odds who are both right and both wrong in their argument, sharing responsibility for the birth and death of love."

The feel-bad movie of 2010 to me, but it doesn't change how good and well-done it was. Gosling and Williams are great together and in general, but what stood out the most was the dialogue - it was all-too-real and an interesting look at the state of the American family.

The movie seems very real, a couple falls in love and then out of love. The story is simple but is backed by a very strong script, good direction and good acting. The soundtrack that is part of the movie is awesome.. A must watch intense drama.

This film really touched me. Great raw performances from Williams and Gosling. But enough of the shallow depth of field already!