ShogunRua wrote:kgbelliveau wrote:If that was the debate I'm sure we would all have an opinion it. I'm not trying to compare who had what growing up. You pity me because you think I'm a spoiled, Jealous Canadian kid who had it all. Apparently the two decades has turned into a bit of a prick. Just my opinion though. I'm not at all a failure, but I'm not perfect either. I've watched my parents work seasonal jobs their entire life, never sure if there would actually be enough work for them in order to make wages. Yes, there is an unemployment system here in Canada, but it's not enough to sustain a family on. You'r chance to have two decades of hard work and struggle were given to your by your father. Show some gratitude, because without that sacrifice you would have been just another stat about kids who didn't make it. That's the issue I was trying to raise. Not the families that do, but the propaganda that brings false hope to those who won't. I've seen my parents struggle, and I'm still struggling to achieve my dreams. I'm not hiding behind my fathers hard work and claiming to be self made American prodigy.
I want to end with this consideration, not just for you, but everyone; a lot of people are perfectly happy blaming all their problems and shortcomings on the government/society/parents/corporations/rich people/Obama/Republicans/white people/immigrants/men/liberals/conservatives. These people are losers looking for an excuse. Don't be like them.
I'm not trying to blame anything on anyone. I've worked hard to be where I am. I might not have prestigious awards (I'm glad for you, congrats on the awards. Congrats on the whole process of bettering yourself. I mean that openly). I can say that every day I still work hard, make the best effort possible and learn something every day. I just want to remind people that trying to chase sometimes impossible dreams isn't the best option.