philamental wrote:For the record, I'm delighted with the anonymity of being able to add someone as a kumpel without them knowing, so in turn it doesn't bother me that I can't see who has added me. I don't want to see criticker turn in to some sort of weak social media site where you're flooded with 'x has added you as a kumpel' notifications, and there's an etiquette pressure to add them back. I realise I'm probably pissing in the wind here to leave things as is, but that's my view for what it's worth.
Absolutely agree.
When I first realised that this (the current anonymity) was how the kumpel system worked I was both relieved and elated.